My journey has been shaped by resilience, possibility, and a lifelong belief that we always have a choice in how we respond to life.

For more than 25 years, beginning in 1998, I worked as a personal-success, mental-fitness, life, book, and business coach. I had the privilege of working with Brian Tracy, the opportunity to chat with the late Bob Proctor, and the honor of co-authoring a book with Jim Cathcart.

Throughout my career, I helped people quiet their inner critics, build confidence, discover their purpose, and create meaningful change. Although I have now retired from coaching, encouraging and inspiring others remains an important part of who I am.

After losing my husband, Jeff, in February 2025, I entered a deeply personal new chapter. Jeff spent his career in the automobile business and was affectionately known as “the car guy”—the trusted person everyone turned to for his knowledge, experience, and honest advice. Yet of all the wonderful things people have shared about him, one word is mentioned again and again: kindness.

Jeff’s example continues to remind me that success is measured not only by what we accomplish, but also by how we treat people along the way.

I live in Greenwood Village, Colorado, with my Siamese kitty, Chloe. I am blessed with an amazing son, Mikey—a successful entrepreneur and my rock—and a wonderful granddaughter, Helena.

Today, Attracting Possibilities is a place where I can share the ideas, books, lessons, stories, and special discoveries that have enriched my life. My purpose remains the same: to encourage others to recognize their strength, choose kindness, and remain open to all the possibilities still ahead.

A New Chapter Filled With Possibility

Life changes, sometimes without warning. Each new chapter gives us another opportunity to decide who we will become, what we will carry forward, and how we will make a difference.

I invite you to explore, be inspired, and remember:

You always have a choice. Choose kindness. Choose possibility. Choose to be the victor.

“It’s not what happens to you, but how you choose to respond that defines your journey.”

This transformative book, ranked #28 in Success Books (2012), inspires you to take control of your life. Packed with practical tools and powerful insights, Victim or Victor is your guide to shifting your mindset, building resilience, and creating lasting success. It’s a must-read for anyone ready to embrace their inner strength and thrive.


“Your mindset is the key to your sales, your success, and your future.”

This edition equips sales professionals with the tools to overcome challenges, build relationships, and thrive in any environment. It’s your guide to achieving success by mastering the mindset that drives results. Don’t be the victim…


“Courage is not having the strength to go on;
it is going on when you don’t have the strength.”
– Theodore Roosevelt

On Father’s Day 2002, Jan Payne’s world changed forever when her 29-year-old son was diagnosed with testicular cancer. In this deeply personal and heartfelt book, Jan describes her journey as a mother. She navigates the shock, fear, and uncertainty that come with a serious diagnosis.

This book is more than a story; it’s a guide for parents facing similar challenges. It offers practical advice. It provides emotional comfort. It brings a sense of hope to help families support their loved ones through the toughest of times.

Jan provides insights with raw honesty and resilience. These insights help in coping with the emotional toll. They also aid in managing the practical aspects of care. Additionally, they reveal finding moments of strength even in the darkest hours. It’s a companion for any parent searching for guidance, understanding, and the reassurance that they’re not alone in their journey.

Whether you’re facing a similar journey or seeking inspiration, this book reveals the profound truth. You never know how much you can handle. You won’t realize this until you don’t have a choice. It serves as a testament to the strength, love, and resilience we discover in ourselves during life’s most challenging moments.


“Success isn’t a destination; it’s a mindset.”


This easy-to-read guide delivers 58 powerful principles to help you shine in every area of your life. With clear, actionable steps, it’s designed to boost your confidence, strengthen your relationships, and unlock your full potential.

Perfect for busy professionals, dreamers, and go-getters alike, Success Radiates! makes success feel achievable and fun. Whether you’re seeking personal growth or professional brilliance, this book will inspire you. It will guide you to a life filled with purpose, balance, and unstoppable confidence.

Get ready to embrace your brilliance and radiate success effortlessly!


“Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food.” – Hippocrates

Discover the surprising health benefits of red wine and its role in supporting women’s wellness. This guide explores the science, moderation, and joy of raising a glass to your health. Cheers to balance, vitality, and savoring life’s moments!


“Hope is stronger than fear.”


Jan shares her personal journey through breast cancer. She offers a beacon of hope and resilience to others facing the same path. This easy-to-read guide combines practical advice with heartfelt emotional support to help you navigate the challenges with courage and clarity.

If you’ve just been diagnosed, this book provides insights and encouragement. If you are supporting a loved one, it offers strength and optimism to face each day. It’s a companion to remind you that you’re never alone—and that hope always shines brighter.


“The more you prepare, the less you have to worry about in the moment.” – Jim Cathcart

This guide is your go-to resource for mastering the art of public speaking. Whether you’re a novice or an experienced presenter, it offers practical tips. These tips will help you captivate your audience. You can overcome stage fright. Additionally, deliver unforgettable presentations.

Packed with actionable advice, this book empowers you to speak with confidence, clarity, and impact. It’s the ultimate tool to help you shine on any stage and leave a lasting impression.


Find these books and more on Jan’s Amazon Author Page. Whether you’re seeking personal growth or professional success, Jan’s books offer the wisdom you need. They give tools and encouragement to thrive through life’s challenges. Empower yourself to overcome obstacles, embrace opportunities, and create a life of purpose and joy. Don’t just live—shine!.